Shitty ass night.

desperate

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So at like 10PM my 19 years old sister tells me she's going to go at the marina on her bicycle alone, to chill a little bit, and that she will then come back and go to bed (she actually said that word for word). I'm a bit protective, and I didn't like the idea of her going alone over there at night, but I just said "ok, be careful"..

Then I head over to my friends who just got out of the hospital because he swallowed a full bottle of tylenol. Long story. Anyways, I stayed with him all night with another friend and I got back home at 4 am.

When I got back home, my sister wasn't there. I checked in the backyard, her bike wasn't there. I started to freak out.. "omfg, where the fuck is she?" At that point it was out of question I was going to sleep. She could'nt have gone to friends in my town since she has no friends in my town. All her friends live in the next city, wich is a 20 minutes car ride from home, and about 1 hour on bike. I thought it was unlikely she would have gone over there, that late.

So I head to the marina, looking for her. Didn't find her and went back home.

So I call my really good friend, wich is also my sisters boyfriend (yeah.), and who lives even further in the woods. I wake him up, ask her if she's with him. Nope. I explain the situation, and he tells me he's gonna come at my place and that we'll look for her from there.

Meanwhile, I called the cops and asked if they have seen my sister. Nope.

Oh yeah, during all that time I called every 5 minutes on her cell phone and she wouldn't fucking answer. I was starting to get really freaked out.

So my friend comes over and we decide to go check at her friends in the next city, see if her bike is in their backyards; even though we thought it was unlikely she would've biked for an hour at 10PM when she told me she was just going to the marina. (It was 5:30AM when we left my house looking for her.)

We did all the houses we thought she might have went to. We even knocked and woke up a couple of them. At this point we were really fucking scared something bad had happened to her.

So when we did all her friends homes, the last option for us was to go look at her ex-boyfriends house. She still goes there sometimes because they are still friends, even though it really fucking pisses my friend off when she does that. That was the last possible place she could've been. If we didn't find her there, we'd call the cops and definitely freak out. We talked about torturing and murdering the sick fuck who would have raped her in the woods.

Well guess what, she was there, at her ex-boyfriends. Apparently she did a long bike ride, and decided to go "chill" over there.

My friend is fucking pissed. I am too, cause she made me freak out.

That is the most shittiest night I've had in a loooong time. I haven't slept.

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Triple thumbs down.
 
Well look on the bright side, your sister is ok. But that is pretty damn fucked up. Why the hell would she go to her ex bf's house at 10pm and stay there through the night? Why not go to your mates place (her bf) to chill out ?
Confusing creatures these sisters are.

So much trouble you went through to find out if she was ok, Good to see you look after her. Did she recognise the efforts you put in to find her?

Anyways go get some sleep, after nights like that you really need it.
 
Yeah I'm glad she's ok.

Well, my friends place is really too far for her to go there on a bike, plus he was sleeping cause he had to get up at 6 this morning.

Nope. She thinks I overreacted. :thumbsdn:

Anyways, for some reason, it made me feel better to post it. Thanks wtf, lolz :thumbsup:
 
Wow, that must have sucked, i respect that you got worried but, shes practically an adult she can take care of her self. oh well, at least you found her
 
As noted, that sucks ass. Irresponsible people, and I know several, never seem to take into account YOUR feelings. They do as they please then act all surprised when you are worried. Hopefully she learned something and will give you more of a heads up next time. Best of luck.
 
Well, props to you for being such a great big brother. I wish my brother was like that. And I have to say, your little sister is a shit for not at least answering her cell phone nevermind calling to leave you a message saying where she was. God, I woulda had the cops out lookin for her a lot sooner than that. Rep for you man.
 
Well, well done for looking after your sister and being a good brother. It's really fucking annoying when something like that happens, and you freak out and they think you're being over protective. :rolleyes:
Anywho, well done again =).
Glad she's ok.
 
about that I have to say.. and she should of answered the phone and all..why the fuck didnt she answer? I think you didn't overreact..some people are protective..I am one of them..sometimes it's really disturbs me..but it's never a bad thing to be protective..unless you go over to overprotective= maniac bastard with need of total control of others life
 
Well she said she was sleeping and she didn't hear it, it was like between 4 and 5:30 so she was sleeping =/

But yeah, she could've gave me a phone message or something. everything's fine now :thumbsup: My friend/her boyfriend is still pissed though.. lol
 
Man that's a pain in the ass. My sister pulls that stuff all the time. She'll call me and say she's 10 mins away and I won't see her for another 2 1/2 hours or more. It's annoying.

Ignore it.

I've done the precinct thing and all that. In fact my sis and I have a mutual friend at the precinct. This one time my sis calls me and says she's one stop away on the train and I didn't see her for another 3 hours, I panicked and went to the police station to see our buddy. Turns out the bitch (my sister) lied and was all the way across town. My biggest beef: Don't lie, just tell me where you are you freakshow!

Just want you to know there's somebody out there with the same situation. Learn her patterns so you don't give yourself a heart attack at an early age. And as far as her boyfriend, that's his issue he needs to resolve with her, don't get involved (not that you would)
 
Like even if I sleep I have on my phone..I just would of get really pissed off..but it's like..shit happends sometimes..but if she knew that she had said that she'd come home and all then didnt show up..she could of dropped a line or something :) I can immagine that, first of all not answering, then being at hers ex house sleeping...
 
Dear God im glad that i dont have a sister that is a few years younger than me cuz i would not let her out of my sight...and what was she doing at her ex boyfriend's again? Chillin? R you sure that they were not doing something a little warmer?
 
Jesus. That's scary shit man. She's the guy's sister and I can see where he is comming from. Atleast she's alive and well though.

I really can't see why you would have talked about rape stories, that just made things much worse >_
 
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