She's agreed to get back together with conditions?

william

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My former fiancee and I are in college. We met freshman year and were always together, but she recently decided that we should break up. We broke up in November and I have missed her since then. She recently agreed to go out with me on a date after I had talked with her on the phone many times about getting back together. I asked her why she left me, and she said she felt like I was in a rut and that her friends and family don't think we are a good match. Our date went well in my opinion and last night on the phone she said she wants to try getting back together. However, she said she has a lot of conditions on our getting back together. One is that her parents want her to date other guys as well, for the first 6 months at least. Another is that we will not be physical at first though we used to be. She wants to take things very slow. This is hard to deal with and I am really upset. She has said that she will probably not date other guys and she is going along with it for her parents' sake. Her friends still hate me and oppose the whole thing. Is this worth trying to get through? Can I win her back to me? It seems like it has gone so well after our date and I want to try this, but I can see already how hard this all will be. She has said she likes the new, more romantic me. Has anyone else dealt with this sort of breakup?
 
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