she proposed. I know for sure we r incompatible. I cannot discuss politics,

[Vijay K]

science, arts, psychology, music, ? movies, books.... all we can say is how are u doin and talk trash about people and other such mindless stuff......i hate talkin in phone without a reason and she loves it....call me arrogant but i think she is incapable of havin an intelligent conversation.......i ve never done this before.....plz tell me how do i say no without hurting my friend.......

 

[Lou]

How long have you been going out with her and how old are you and her ?
Never once did you mention she was your girlfriend just a friend. So if she has all these faults what is the relatiosnhip based on sex, which a good start (lol) but it won't last in the long run.
You will have to say no,

 

[Bill]

Compliment, sincerely, a lot: "I have massive respect for you and like you, and would like to keep you as a friend. But I sincerely think it would be a mistake for us to marry. I've heard that conflicts get worse after marriage (though the subject matter may change to finances and things like that). We'd be nuts to marry! In saying 'no' I'm saving both of us from future misery." Or, something like that.