Sharing explicit sexual photos?

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I am a girl. Sorry i think either way it's wrong. Just tell him you dont feel comfortable and if he is mad or something you need to tell him that you guys cant be together if he cant respect what you think is right and wrong. This is just like sharing porn. Just take it from me...don't do it.\
 
I've met a nice guy three weeks ago at a party. We clicked but live in two different cities. He asked for my email, and then sent me a nice message and added me as a friend on Facebook. Since then, we have been chatting regularly about our lives and I enjoyed it. We both complimented each other, had fun and talked about ourselves. However, he did not contact me for 4 days this week and then asked me for a picture of me in bikini, as part of the discussion. I took it as a joke and asked him for a picture of him in underwear before then; and he sent it to me! I feel embarrassed now because I promised him a picture in return but I am not sure I should share a picture of me in bikini to someone I don't know very well. Men, what do you think?
I am thinking about sharing a picture of me in bikini where my face would be not clear. Good idea?
 
I am a girl. Sorry i think either way it's wrong. Just tell him you dont feel comfortable and if he is mad or something you need to tell him that you guys cant be together if he cant respect what you think is right and wrong. This is just like sharing porn. Just take it from me...don't do it.\
 
the same thing happened to me! i met him on dotblu and he asked ffor my email and we chatted on yahoo then he asked me if i wanted to see his **** and then he asked me to show him my pics such A WEIRDO! end the friendship and end everything! dat is totally uncool
 
Well at least he just asked for a swimsuit pic, and hopefully your bikini, isn't that racy. Just be sure your pose is modest.
And as you suggest, blurring your face, would add to the safety of sending a pic.
Just don't go beyond a bikini pic. That will give him all the information he needs about your shape and figure.
If you care to, a head shot, might go well too. But for now, stick with the blurry face on the swimsuit pic.
 
It's a bikini...if you wear it on the beach or at the pool, why not share the photo? Just don't make it a racy picture...and for goodness sakes don't send nudes unless you don't care who sees them...ever. Such things have been known to ruin relationships and careers years down the road.
 
I'm not a guy, but I've been in this situation before.

I don't think it's advisable to send pictures to a guy you just met when you're hardly wearing anything at all, but if your face isn't visible, who can really prove it's you if it gets out there? It's up to you, but you could get into some trouble with it if he turns out to be a tool. You have to make your own decisions, but figure out the reprocussions before you go ahead with it. Or, another alternative is next time you see him, just show him in person. Flirt with him a little and tell him, "come see it for yourself." :]
 
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