sexuality dilemma, does this situation sound like a problem?

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I have been dating someone for more than a year and I care about him a lot. I told him when we first started seeing each other that I was also interested in women but not for relationships just sexually. He said ok and wasn't sure how he felt about it and went back and forth but then we started dating. He has since said that he doesn't like it and would not be happy with me being with a woman or even him being part of it. I told him I would not so that we can still be in this relationship but it bothers me that I told him how I felt about the situation in the beginning and now he says no. He thinks it is upsetting that I feel how I do but I do not want to lie to him. I am torn because he is obviously more important than me being with a woman but i have a hard time thinking what if i never can ever again.Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
haha ok, again, asking if anyone has any thoughts on it. i just think sometimes it is good to get other views on a situation
hm, yeah i know it is just difficult because have only been with two women before and I am in my early 20s. its frustrating sometimes because you hear all these other guys saying they would like it if their gf wanted to bring in women
 
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