Our marriage is a marriage, but not recogized by "the man" (lol).......funny we live about 15 minutes from Mass. But cannot marry in mass.....That will change soon I hope, so we can get married again. The first time I was so nervous and slightly drunk, I think the day passed so fast I can't remember half of it. I blinked and it was done.....Maybe a second time I would be more relaxed!