So, me and my friends were having a discussion on fb about relationships when one of the guys said that a lot of us girls today think its okay to be "hoes" and that even if we think we are not being hoes we are hoes. So, this offended me and my girlfriends. So we said the guys are "hoes" too and he said that it doesn't matter because being a "hoe" is not a bad thing for a guy.
He never specified what exactly he meant by being hoeish, to me that word is vague, it means different things to different people, but it seems to me whenever a girl plays the field like dudes do all day she is a hoe. While they are just being guys.
He also implied that us girls that have had casual sexual relationships, or even just casually date people while NOT in monogamous relationships are trashy.
Why are all those things cool for guys to do but uncool for a girl? Wtf?
We are ALL COLLEGE AGE AND IN COLLEGE.
It's not a matter of biology. It's a matter of common sense. What makes sense about saying it's fine to play the field and see and flirt with as many people you want and enjoy life as a young person UNLESS you happen to have a vagina?
Dunson, you're clueless. If you're going to speak on behalf of all guys, I'll speak on behalf of most colleged aged females and say that we do happen to have pretty strong sex drives, I have many close g.f's and no of us are averse to sex.
He never specified what exactly he meant by being hoeish, to me that word is vague, it means different things to different people, but it seems to me whenever a girl plays the field like dudes do all day she is a hoe. While they are just being guys.
He also implied that us girls that have had casual sexual relationships, or even just casually date people while NOT in monogamous relationships are trashy.
Why are all those things cool for guys to do but uncool for a girl? Wtf?
We are ALL COLLEGE AGE AND IN COLLEGE.
It's not a matter of biology. It's a matter of common sense. What makes sense about saying it's fine to play the field and see and flirt with as many people you want and enjoy life as a young person UNLESS you happen to have a vagina?
Dunson, you're clueless. If you're going to speak on behalf of all guys, I'll speak on behalf of most colleged aged females and say that we do happen to have pretty strong sex drives, I have many close g.f's and no of us are averse to sex.