So I'm having a bit of a dilemma.
My ex and I broke up, about a week ago, he broke up with me due to...his own issues & dealing with mine, the relationship just won't make it. However, I'm on the path to getting help.
Thing is he said "we just need some time" Tonight we are suppose to get together and talk after he gets back from dinner with his "dad." I'm not sure if I believe that or not because he isn't really close with his dad like that but oh well, doesn't matter because we aren't together.
Now here is my dilemma, after we began getting physical together, I knew I would NEVER EVER EVER want to have sex with anyone for the rest of my life, it's 10:30 & he should be calling me soon, but all I can think about is having sex with him instead of talking to him. Maybe it's because we haven't had sex in 2weeks or its the fact we aren't together that makes me want it more.
so should i just go for it? Or should I actually sit down and talk with him and see where the conversation goes first?
I don't really wanna be that ex that he goes to whenever he wants sex because he knows he can get it, but I'm feeling frustrated, possibley because I miss that closeness with him.
The reason we broke up wasn't because we DON'T care about each other anymore, it's because we DO, and we know it's absolutely impossible for us to have a healthy happy relationship unless we fix our issues, before all of our selfissues fell out on the table and meshed our relationship was bliss.
My ex and I broke up, about a week ago, he broke up with me due to...his own issues & dealing with mine, the relationship just won't make it. However, I'm on the path to getting help.
Thing is he said "we just need some time" Tonight we are suppose to get together and talk after he gets back from dinner with his "dad." I'm not sure if I believe that or not because he isn't really close with his dad like that but oh well, doesn't matter because we aren't together.
Now here is my dilemma, after we began getting physical together, I knew I would NEVER EVER EVER want to have sex with anyone for the rest of my life, it's 10:30 & he should be calling me soon, but all I can think about is having sex with him instead of talking to him. Maybe it's because we haven't had sex in 2weeks or its the fact we aren't together that makes me want it more.
so should i just go for it? Or should I actually sit down and talk with him and see where the conversation goes first?
I don't really wanna be that ex that he goes to whenever he wants sex because he knows he can get it, but I'm feeling frustrated, possibley because I miss that closeness with him.
The reason we broke up wasn't because we DON'T care about each other anymore, it's because we DO, and we know it's absolutely impossible for us to have a healthy happy relationship unless we fix our issues, before all of our selfissues fell out on the table and meshed our relationship was bliss.