Sex while being seperated?

[Ellbow]

I have been seperated from my wife for 6 months now. I left her and am seeking divorce. As silly as this may sound, I am still madly in love with her and left her because she had fallen out of love with me.(There were also some interesting indescretions on her part). She was 10 years younger than me.
I have met this wonderful lady who is my age. She is so in love with me and expresses it constantly. Is it normal to have difficulty sexually with a new person? I know that I must get over my ex(who already has her own new boyfriend), I just can't seem to perform the way I know that I can, I feel held back. How do I move past this?

 

[Mimzy]

Maybe you should have waited until after the divorce to move on. It sounds like you aren't ready yet. There are too many issues and mentally, you don't need to add more.

 

[Georgio Golgani]

just think about making that new woman of your orgasm....and forget your frumpy ex.

 

[Lainey Judith]

You weren't ready to move on to a new relationship. Your feelings for the woman who is still, legally, your wife, are making you feel like you are betraying her love in some way.
Just because SHE has fallen out of love with you, and in love with someone else, doesn't mean YOU will be moving on as quickly with your emotions.
Try as much as you can to put the wife emotions behind, and ask the new lady to help you take things slower.
If she really is so deeply in love with you, she will understand, and make it easier for you to move with your life.
Communication is key.
Now, THAT being said, you don't have to tell her ALL the details of your feelings for your wife, but just let her know you are not past it, and would still like her company and support while you get through this....

 

[Ms Lee]

I think that it is normal to feel weird when you are with some one new. maybe you need to tell the new woman that you may have rushed things and you want to slow down for a bit. Continue seeing her but hold off on the sex for now. Im sure it will work out.