sex troubles.. any help?

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ok so basically i cant orgasm when my boyfriend and i have sex. I feel bad because it makes him feel like he isnt doing it right for me. I dont know what to do. Any suggestions?!

thanks!


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Sometimes it is stress; you can also try foreplay..... You know, I think ~75% of woman have the same issue as well.
 
You can try and research better sex positions that help the girl reach an "O". Maybe you can try foreplay longer to get yourself REALLY turned on if that might be the problem. You know what You like to pleasure yourself so tell you BF how to move and guide him in a discreet way during sex or in a casual talk about sex.

Also, do you enjoy it but just do not orgasm? If so, try to talk to him and say "Baby, i don't know why my body doesn't reach "O" but, it isn't your fault. your very good at sex and i enjoy every second of it."
If that doesn't work and he still feels like crap, you can just fake it. but be careful, if he ever finds out you've been faking it, he will HATE you... faking it really hurts the guy. so. yeah, i recommend the first 3 or 4 ideas i wrote, faking is like, last last LAST resort.
 
can you orgasm on your own? or when he gives your oral? or fingers you?

i think youve got to not be shy, youve got to know how to please youreslf in order to teach someone else.
and all boys need teaching.

hint: try rubbing your clit :D

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don't fake it =/
thats ridiculous. just keep working at it.
it takes practice.
ive never had to fake it.
if a boy isnt sure what to do, you dont lie to him to make him think hes doing it right. you correct him.
people annoy me :)
sex isnt something to be prude about with someone you love.
 
Most women need manual stimulation before and sometimes after to be able to completely orgasm. The clitoris sometimes needs to be opened up and "let out" somewhat like a male who is not circumsized. The other thing is that it can not take constant stimulation, thats why circular on-off motions work best. A therapist taught me this after 10 years of unsuccessful sex in my marriage. We both went home with a mirror to discover what was going on or not.

Make sure you guide him in foreplay. AND MAKE SURE YOU HAVE SOME FOREPLAY. Crutial to most women. Also make sure he is oral with your nip****s, or at least wet your fingers, they are somehow mysteriously connected. I say make yourself orgasm a few times so that you can teach him what you need.
 
I had the same problem...
Have you tried being on top? & doing it your own way?

When on bottom sometimes I move my lower body in thrust with his & it makes it that much easier to get the O.
 
when you say orgasm do you c*m? i read that it can be difficult and normal if a girl cant. yesterday when i was having sex, the boys asked if i was about to and it was akward because i never have before so im having trouble too.... id like to know the answer :/
 
I dont know about you, but I have never orgasmed from sex alone.. With my current boyfriend, we have amazing sex, I just never get off.. The few times I have, I had to break out the vibrator and look up some porn while we did it lol.. Maybe you should try building up extra tension before you have sex, aka a lot fooling around.. Or while youre having sex you can touch yourself.. Good luck!
 
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