sex tape of ex on bf's computer?

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i was on my bf's new laptop, looking for pictures of us, and lo and behold. i come across a video, no a sex video that he made with his ex gf (the last one before me). making it is his problem, but honestly. why does he have it on his new laptop? this means he had to move it over from his old one (bought new one this june). help. i don't know if i should confront him, or if he'll just get mad that i snooped. but it's bothering the crap out of me. what should i do? what does this mean? it sucks because i've had issues with him and this ex-gf before.
 
if it were me, i would tell him. tell him the truth, your truth is reasonable and thought he wouldn't mind you looking through his computer for pictures. Has he seen you use his laptop before? if so i would mention that if he gets offend, you have used his laptop before seeing the video then tell him i've used your computer before and felt comfortable using it again to look up pictures.

hopefully by the end of talking to him you can ask him to delete it off of every place he has kept it (other computers or camera).

been in a similar suitutaion but my boyfriend purchased & downloaded porn which ughh i was disgusted that he had to pay for porn, but i found out when he ask me to check his bank account online for him and i kinda noticed something strange about the name :( i confronted him i think 3 days later i felt wayy better, but he did get very mad and hang up on me cause he was caught but than realized what he did and everything was back to normal.

good luck.
 
just tell him u want to fuck his brains out, and u want his cock deep inside u..once he agrees..tell him oh btw i saw this video on ur laptop
 
if it were me, i would tell him. tell him the truth, your truth is reasonable and thought he wouldn't mind you looking through his computer for pictures. Has he seen you use his laptop before? if so i would mention that if he gets offend, you have used his laptop before seeing the video then tell him i've used your computer before and felt comfortable using it again to look up pictures.

hopefully by the end of talking to him you can ask him to delete it off of every place he has kept it (other computers or camera).

been in a similar suitutaion but my boyfriend purchased & downloaded porn which ughh i was disgusted that he had to pay for porn, but i found out when he ask me to check his bank account online for him and i kinda noticed something strange about the name :( i confronted him i think 3 days later i felt wayy better, but he did get very mad and hang up on me cause he was caught but than realized what he did and everything was back to normal.

good luck.
 
Whoa!! This is a bad sign, I'm sorry. If you have had issues with this ex before. And like you said, he had to have moved it onto his new computer. It's not like he forgot about it and it's been on there forever. I would say something. It's not like you went looking for it and if he had nothing to hide, he wouldn't care that you were on his computer. I would assume that he still has a thing for her, or he would have deleted that. I am with a wonderful man and when things got serious between us, I deleted all of my pictures of my ex on my computer, I have no need for them.
 
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