I need some advice. The girl im with right now I recently started dating I have had a problem with I never had before during sex. I'm only 19 and been with about 5 different girls before but never encountered a problem til now. When I have sex with this girl I feel like I don't satisfy her enough and I don't want it to lead to problems between us. I really like her, and is one of the first girls I sat down to have a serious relationship with. The problem is in bed I get real excited then lose my excitement.
She recognizes it and wonders why and asks me. I never had a issue hooking up with girls and giving them what they want, but I feel like I cant do it with this girl. I get more nervous about myself and shes always willing to try new things which is great and why I love her so much more than other girls I've met. But at the same time, its making things worst for me because I've had trouble in the bed with her. I'm convinced in some ways I should see a doctor for Viagra or something, but at the same time Im 19 and I don't think that is the real problem here. She almost feels like its her, not me. I don't even know how to give her a real reason to why its like this with her. No one has ever told me I don't satisfy them, but I feel that way about her. Maybe shes the first girl to come out and say whats wrong to me? or I'm pretty clear she is more experienced than me which makes me more nervous and feel like she expects more and I'm not living up to it. I hate the feeling of losing and right now I feel like I just can't win.
Any advice or motivation would help so much. I'm look at it from my perspective so I'd like to know how others feel from a outside perspective and how I can solve my problem? I want to show her that its not her, and I can defiantly give her more i just am struggling. Thanks to anyone in advance.
She recognizes it and wonders why and asks me. I never had a issue hooking up with girls and giving them what they want, but I feel like I cant do it with this girl. I get more nervous about myself and shes always willing to try new things which is great and why I love her so much more than other girls I've met. But at the same time, its making things worst for me because I've had trouble in the bed with her. I'm convinced in some ways I should see a doctor for Viagra or something, but at the same time Im 19 and I don't think that is the real problem here. She almost feels like its her, not me. I don't even know how to give her a real reason to why its like this with her. No one has ever told me I don't satisfy them, but I feel that way about her. Maybe shes the first girl to come out and say whats wrong to me? or I'm pretty clear she is more experienced than me which makes me more nervous and feel like she expects more and I'm not living up to it. I hate the feeling of losing and right now I feel like I just can't win.
Any advice or motivation would help so much. I'm look at it from my perspective so I'd like to know how others feel from a outside perspective and how I can solve my problem? I want to show her that its not her, and I can defiantly give her more i just am struggling. Thanks to anyone in advance.