well for me the first time and all the time that is rough it hurts ,but sweetie if is not enjoyable try to find another guy ,believe me my ex is 6 inches and he was the best man in my bed or any place lol,and now my bf he is almost 12 and really I have to get wet to enjoy ,I'm with him because he is too good as a man but not as sex man ,my point if you are going to keep with that relation try to start with some oral ,and try to get enough wet so you can enjoy or move out because maybe you are going to get hurt