okay so im 16 never had sex before. I really wanna have sex with this guy that i have known since i was 8 and we always hang out talka nd what not and when we go to the cottage together we always cuddle and what not. Well were going to the cottage in a few days and im wondering how i talk to him before going to the cottage to have sex?
help please
Maybe you could ask him if he thinks he's ready to do it with you. Before that, you really need to think. Are you SURE you are ready to deal with the possible consequenses? When you have sex with a man you are giving part of you to him. Do you know in your heart that you are going to marry him? And that other guy doesn't know what he's talking about. Make sure you guys use a condom. Two is always better than one. ... If you guys really are ready then tell him you want to do it and see what he thinks about it. Don't push him to do it if he doesn't want to. But always make sure to be safe.
