Sex question!!! Help?

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Captain S

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Slow down, man. You just started dating. Dating someone is not automatic code for an invitation to bed her down. Impatient guys are their own worse enemies, whereas a less eager guy can take a woman into territory she's never been before.
That's some deep advice I just gave you, and it can pay off in BIG dividends IF you have the wisdom to internalize the message. Good luck.
 
Ok so I just started dating this girl and she never wants to have sex. So when I asked her about it. She said that has never enjoyed sex and in fact she's only orgaizmed once in her life from sex. So this is a problem, I was going to take the approch of a lot of foreplay but I'm looking for tips or hints that you think might work.
 
Touch her heart. If you do that she will want that closeness with you, she will want to kiss and she will want to hug you, eventually she will want to be with you. Its going to take time but its worth it and you will make the relationship stronger. You guys have just started out, her feelings will get stronger as the relationship goes on. Do sweet things for her, make her feel like shes the world, be genuine, be there for her always, make her feel like she can talk to you about anything. Talk to her so much. Communication is so important, if you talk to her, youre not only making thigs stronger, youre building up trust. Make her laugh and smile. If you do kiss her, kiss her on the neck sometimes too. My parnter does it and although we're not ready for sex. (we're in our 20's too) i just want him to hold me.
 
it seems like you just want to get in her pants! do you even know the color of her eyes? gosh is that all guys think about now?


okay that sounded really naggy but it's true! get your mind out of the gutter and take things slower. she probably dosen't trust you enough.
 
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