Sex Question?10 Points[Important]?

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Tony C

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Don't do it. Long story short, when you have sex, chemicals in your body are released - and while it's a very euphoric feeling, these chemicals combat the chemicals that cause passion among people who are dating.

Put differently, unless you have been dating for over 2 years, dopamine makes any two people, who are in love, blind to the defects of the other person. When you have sex, that deep passion, caused by dopamine, takes a big blow. That's what causes "one night stands". Temporary passion is killed by sex, and then the person is no longer in love.

If you have been dating for a long time, get married, and then have sex. Then it's far more likely that he sticks around, because he would love you for more reasons than simply dopamine blinding him to reality.
 
ok so me and my boyfriend have been talking about having sex for the longest and i was about to do it yesterday but i never went to his house.Im a virgin but he isnt so he knows what he is doing but im a little scared so could you tell me what to expect for my first time and how to make it at least worth losing my virginity for

NOTE:HE IS SOMEONE I TRULEY LOVE
 
I would like to know how old you are. And, How long you have been with him. If you did not go to his house yesterday that tells a lot to me. I think you are not ready.

In case you still want to do it:
Do not set high expectation for the first time. You will not get an orgasm and it might hurt. It will be very short for him to come. It takes them minutes. After that he will fall asleep. No romance in there.

One more thing USE A CONDOM. And take some KY just in case.
 
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