Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now however we have just confessed to each other that it isn't all that good in fact not very pleasurable at all. It's made me feel really down as for all this time I have been thinking I was really good and he was getting loads of pleasure. I don't know what to do? What is wrong with us??
Sex problems...what is wrong?
- Thread starter Lollipop
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blueberryice
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maybe you need to practice more
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Tatty Natty
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experiment. tell each other what you like.
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viru
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Tell him not to put pressure on you...do slowly...it wont hurt you,will take less energy and your sex will be more enjoyable...its works for me having sex with my gf....
NYC_PiscesWoman09
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Obviously both of you (depending on your age) need to discover how to really pleasure one another. If neither of you masturbates, now might be a really good time to learn how. It will teach what turns you on and then you can show each other what works in bed. It isn't so much that anything is wrong with either of you, but perhaps you need to take more time on foreplay. In the long run, if you still cannot feel any pleasure while with him you should consider moving on without him. Some people are just not compatible. Try to work on things first. Good luck!