SEX: Now that i have your attention, please read?

If she had sex with a dude after 6 months and ended up breaking up with him, then maybe she just wants this time to be a sure thing. Girls generally think of dudes as more physical than emotional so she might be testing you. (Girls are bitches like that. =D)

If you're serious about her, then take her seriously and wait it out. If not, then just go with whatever you feel. Most girls like to over-analyze things so if you've got something to say, say it straight, no mixed messages.
 
oh she gave it up to her ex in six months but wants you 2 wait one year...oh how nice...break up with her in the most jerkish way possible...and then she will be throwing it at you...yah its a freaking insult especially if you guys really click...imagine it being the other way around..the nerve of these chicks i swear...honestly i dont really think she ever plans on sleeping with you...cuz if a chick really liked you and she isn't a virgin she would sleep with u within the first month..just imagine if you were brad pitt or gerge clooney and she met you at some club...she woud jump in the sack with you within minutes...but no your just you and you have 2 wait 1 year not 6 months like the other guy not an hour or two like brad pitt....no u because your you have 2 wait 1 year....she might as well called you a homo or worse yet her guy friend...
 
Hi. Yeah my girlfriend and i were talking and all of a sudden she asked me if we could wait to have sex about after one year of being together. She said she just wants it to be more special and we'll get it if we wait. I kinda think...why 1 year. I'm happy to go 1 year or even like longer but just why did she decide to mention that to me out of the blue. Does it make a difference if she had an ex boyfriend and they ended up doing it after 6 months. I'm kinda thinking that if she wanted this, would she think that she wouldn't be with me for that long...so she doesn't want to throw herself away. i dont know. yeah please help.
Note: No perverted or insulting comments please. Thank you
 
she's just trying to feel you out and see if your all about sex. sad to say but now a days most relationships are all about sex. the longer you wait and the more time you spend with her the more emotions you will start to build.. its nothing more painful than a girl giving herself to a guy jus to findout he's playing her or they break up. keep in mind that most relationships don't last past a yr! ask her why she wants to wait that long and if you can do other things like touch... rub.. or even oral..
 
in my humble opinin, I women just pull "1 year" out of the blue because it is a long time with a short number. What I mean by this is that they test you to see your reaction by giving you a long period of wait but the shortest number to not make it 'exagerated'. She is probably afraid you will leave her and not respect her. Just say yes and go with it. I can almost garantee she will not go that long and she will eventually start opening up to you more.
 
You didn't mention how old you are - this is important because (no offense) this "timeline" seems really childish.
If you love her, wait. Sex can wait. But it sounds like some kind of test to make sure she is in control.OR, she just wants to make sure you are not in this only for sex. Either way, just wait.
 
well it could be for a few reason. if she never did it before with anyone and she is a V for some unknown reason girls always think the first time will ways be special (some cases it could be) but they look back and go wow that sucks bc girls like/hate it the first time.Than on the other hand she could feel like (if she did it before) he last BF just wanted sex and she kinda testing you on if your willing to say with her for that long maybe your someone she will want to be with.If you should her that you like her for who she is than she may just make it "SPECIAL" for you bc you wont see it comes and she will feel like she blowing your mind with what she is doing. So hang in there you never know what may happen.
 
proberly she just wanted to mention it to you so you don't try anything before a year:) she does want you, just doesn't want to ruin things by doing it to early:)

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maybe she doesnt want to make the same mistakes she previously made in her other relationships. sounds to me like you must mean the world to her and i think you shouldnt read too much into it, instead, enjoy your relationship and let it grow from there... if your feeling in the mood, drop a hint or too, give her a rub, NEVER HURT ANYBODY! :)
 
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