Sex life in the military?

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My husband and I have been married for little over a year. He is in the Marine Corps has been for 3 and a half years. He recently deployed and since he has returned our sex life hasn't been the same. Is it me? Is it deployment? Should I be worried? When we do its great, AWESOME in fact. I’m just concerned.
 
it happens all the time ppl change after they are deployed. talk to him..tell him your concerns and try and work it out...tell him you miss how it used to be
 
Its stress...and besides..the longer your married ..it s natural to have less of a sex drive.
 
I'm sure it was just the deployment and being away from you for so long. He might feel a little disconnected. Try reconnecting with him and let him know how you feel. Dont badger though. Help him help you.
 
Stress from deployment can change a guy, I don't know how he was affected other than your sex life, but if you find that there have been other changes, try to see what's behind it all. It can take time for him to make sense of some of the situations he's been in.

Be romantic with him, try 'dating' each other like you did before marriage.
 
It could be stress, i am in the military too and things do get really stressful. I doubt that it has anything to do with you, it rarely is for us guys. Good luck!
 
Have you talked about this to your hubby? You should, it may be the only thing that can be helpful.
I don't think it's you though - it could be stress ... or just anything really. Talk to him about it hun, best of luck!
 
I think it's simply the time apart - give him time to relax and get comfortable being home again. I would imagine that lifestyle would really take time getting used to.
 
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