Sex is not fun for my new wife and me, I need advice some someone more experienced...

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...please? We have been married for 3 weeks now and have tried to have sex about 13 times and we keep having the same problem: my dick is too big (9") and it hurts her. By the time it stops hurting her I feel bad and can't keep it up. I feel like it is my fault that sex is bad or that we are somehow making a horrible mistake. We do foreplay, use lube and still it hurts. It's getting a little better but it still hurts her and we have not gotten an orgasm out of it yet.

We were both virgins when we married and don't know if it's normal to keep hurting like this. Please help!
 
yeah it is gonna be a little hard on her until she gets adjusted to your size. keep trying though, i guarantee it will get easier as u get adjusted to each others bodys and keep trying the lube and foreplay too that definitely will help in the long run. maybe try some toys to loosen her up also, maybe something a bit smaller than u to get her going then slip yourself in. or sometimes maybe u can just come by oral or touching each other if u feel its hurting too much but as i said she will eventually get adjusted to your size...
 
Evidently, your foreplay tactics are not as good as you think they are, or you need to slow down take your time, watch a sex flick and slowly discover each and every inch of her body,ask her what she likes get HER natural juices flowing and believe u me Mr Big, she should not have any trouble enjoying your massive 9. If you do what she likes, and get her into it.Remember-you got to lick it,before you hit it.
 
it takes time for her body to get use to your size. just keep on practicing. if you take her half way like trying to put it in, well finish it. eventually she will be able to accompany your size. you dont have to put it all the way in, start small. perfection takes practice. you should try and give her an orgasm first then give it to her. sometime natural lube is much much better. keep on trying even if it hurts. tell her, reassure her, and when you do make it worth it for her.
 
get her to work her vagina to be a little bit looser....you are hurting her because you were both virgins...she is still too tight....so if she worked it to be looser then you could have way more comfortable sex....maybe you could even do it
 
Yikes, 9? Don't insert all the way, I'm sure even if you're half way in you will both find ways to pleasure each other.
 
Use a TONNE of lube, and ALOT of foreplay, literally, be SUPER gental, and slow, finger her, use a vibrator, and then work your way up to sexual intercourse, this will help stretch her out a little bit, and make sure she is totally relaxed.
 
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