Sex hurts and I never orgasm?

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sex typically hurts when me and bf try to do it and he always has an orgasm but I never do....I have heard it just takes practice...is this true? Did anyone else out there have to "learn" what to do? and if so are there any tips?
 
If sex hurts, you probably are not having foreplay long enough to be wet. You can get some KY jelly or other water based lube to use to help with this problem. Most women do not orgasm through sexual intercourse. You guys should try getting you to orgasm through external manipulation of the clitoris and genitalia before having sex. Yes, we all had to learn what to do to make sex beneficial for both. You could try masturbation and then show him what you like that makes you feel good.

hope this helps..
 
the only way i can orgasm is when i'm on top. you just have to find the position that works best for you. plus i can only orgasim if my clitorous is very stimulated... so ask him one day to cater only to you... bucuz if this continues... u'll become sexually frstreated with him n things could turn out badly...

now hurting during sex is not a good sign... unless he's super thick. he might just need to use some forplay (or fingers) to loosen you up...

if he's not ur 1st partner that can also be a sign of an STD... so figure it out ASAP.
 
Girls usually only orgasm from oral sex.
(the guy going down on the female ofcourse!)
 
Yes, every woman has to figure out what works for her. You don't necessarily have to do this with masturbation, but it will take a lot of communication with your boyfriend. Many women are unable to have an orgasm everytime (or even most times) they have sex.

Try http://www.cosmopolitan.com/ for sex tips

Also, get some KY lube from the store and use that. Lots of foreplay and clitoral stimulation should do the trick.

Good luck!
 
Age plays a huge factor in this. A lot of girls simply are not physically mature enough to enjoy sex
 
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