Sex for a 13 year old girl?

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Okay, before you start getting into the whole ''you're way too young'' thing, just hear me out!

There's a girl in my class at school and she is new this school year, and I have started to hang out with her a lot. I am one of the ''mature'' people for my age. I'm not like other 13 year olds, and I know a lot about the ''real world''. However much an adult trys to tell me that I know nothing, they're wrong. Sure, I may not know as much as an adult, but I know an awful lot, not meaning to sound arrogant :)

So back to the question, there is a new girl, and I've just started hanging out with her a lot. There's things we can talk to eachother about that no one else at school understands. We both had somewhat difficult childhoods with bad relationships with family members etc etc. What I'm trying to get at is the fact that she's had sex, and in some ways I feel, jealous, like. Not major jealous where I hate her with jealousy, but I want to have sex too. She has, I havn't. And I want to!

Any advice?? :)
 
OMG! That is the lamest reason I think I have ever heard to want to have sex.
And this is not an insult, but you feel mature for your age, right? So how mature do you think you are. You probably have the maturity of a 15 year old girl, 16 maybe.
And just so you know, just because you are mature doesn't automatically make you ready to have sex. Let me ask you, are you mentally ready to handle the possibility of getting pregnant- having to be responsible for another human being. Are you mature enough to handle a possible STD?
You really aren't thinking this through. Honestly, everyone probably looks at your friend like she's easy. Do you want that rep?

Just WAIT! Wait until you are ready for your own personal reasons. Not because your friends are doing it.
Oh and here's a secret for you- when you get older, guys like purity (girls who are virgins/haven't slept with many guys).
 
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