sex!!! can anyone help?

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i am 20 years old i have decided to start having sex with my boyfriend. we started last month. it really really really hurt, and i bled a little bit after. i put a pad on and by the next day the blood was brown and not as heavy.

i thought it was over.

i went to the gynecologist sometime after that and she said it was normal, but when she opened me up i bled again and it STILL hurt.

we tried again last night, and i bled a LOOOT. i put a pad on and i'm stillll bleeding and its still heavy and fresh blood.

can anyone else tell me if they bled like this? or if it hurt alot?
when i went to the gynelocologist she said it was normal and just to relax. she said i was all healthy as well.

if i stop having sex and i don't do it for a long time, does it always hurt again and bleed?
 
well it's good that you've seen your doctor to be sure everything is okay.

It will continue to hurt until your body adjusts. You should try having sex more often (a couple times a week) and use some lube.

It's also possible that the first time, you didn't completely tear your hymen. So the second time, it tore a little more.

I didn't bleed my first time, but when I tore my hymen, it did bleed quite a bit. And it hurt me so bad we had to stop after like a minute and I was nauseous for the rest of the night! It took about 5 times for it to start feeling good and still sometimes (6 years later) it hurts.

If it starts feeling good, but still bleeds you should return to the doctor.

Good luck!
 
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