Sex Before Marriage? Your Thoughts?

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Do you feel this is important? Why or Why not? Do You Chose to wait or Does It not matter to you? What are you views on someone who wants to wait?
 
I already lost it. My girlfriend was going into surgery and we didn't know if she was going to come out alive or not...so we did it and it felt so good because we did it out of love. And yeah she didn't make it out...so it's all good. As long as you love the person and really think they could be the one then go for it.
 
being married isn't the most important thing, as much as being in an at least semi-permanent relationship is. That way, you can avoid STDs and having a child unexpectedly won't be such an issue.
big problem with that is, it's hard to tell how permanent a relationship is unless you're married.

there's not a thing wrong with waiting, though.
 
i do believe in sex before marriage, i think its pointless because i'd hate to get married and then find out he is terrible in bed!

i think this just encourages divorce.

i respect that people may believe otherwise and its up to them what they believe. everyone is different
 
It's great if someone wants to wait. That's their choice and I respect that. I just don't like the people who push that same will onto others or look down on them if they have had sex earlier.

Personally, I feel like if you are with a person that you care about, then it's fine. It's love and it's life. Things happen. But it's someone whoring around just because they want some action, then I might think more negatively on them, and their choices. But it's not like I would try to control them. Actually, I'd probably just keep my thoughts to myself.
 
I will get straight to the point: I want to see how big his penis is and how he is in bed. Those things must pass my criteria.
 
I feel that to wait or not to wait is a personal decision that everyone has to make. Each person has the right to make that decision and to not be judged for it.

My personal choice is to not wait. I feel that sex is a big part of a relationship. My mother waited till marriage and on more than one occasion has told me that she regrets it. Two people need to be compatible in every way if they want a marriage to work. This includes sexual turn ons. People that are notsexuallyy compatible leads to cheating. I feel this is the basis for a lot of divorces.

Now that is just my opinion. I can see why some people would want to wait. For me the outcome is more positive if you don't wait.
 
I believe that your virginity is the best gift that you could give to your spouse, so I'm definitely waiting.
 
I believe it is important to wait because it's a gift that you can only give your husband/wife. It's been really difficult to stand by what I believe though.
 
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