FloatingNotFalling
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OK i have recently turned to christianity,
i was dating a boy, and i slept with him ( i was 15 ) it was only once, and i regret it now, as i realise it didnt mean a thing. (Atheist then)
I am now a keen christian, keen meaning i want to learn, worship and build a relationship with god.
I am now in a very good relationship with another boy. He has been an extremely devoted christian all his life. And i am in love with him. I know it is real love. We have spoken about marriage many a time, and we both want to make that commitment. However us both being 16 means it wont be for at least 5 years.
He has been iffy about physical relationships before, because he has felt unsure. But we both want to make the next step as we both feel it is right.
I have read on many sites etc, that it dosn't actualy say in the bible you must not have sex before marriage ( in those terms ). Is it not more hinting at if you choose to have sex it should be a life long commitment. And i belive that too..now.
I am not expecting all nice comments, but if people could just put the opinions that would be fantastic.
god bless
ok i just wish to add.
that it is so so hard to explain everything in one of these questions. When i say we have an extremely good relationship i mean it. We can talk about/share anything. Tbh we are technically engaged. As for the safe sex side of things, would double dutch anyway. I am not stupid when it comes to that. I am not taking risks.
i was dating a boy, and i slept with him ( i was 15 ) it was only once, and i regret it now, as i realise it didnt mean a thing. (Atheist then)
I am now a keen christian, keen meaning i want to learn, worship and build a relationship with god.
I am now in a very good relationship with another boy. He has been an extremely devoted christian all his life. And i am in love with him. I know it is real love. We have spoken about marriage many a time, and we both want to make that commitment. However us both being 16 means it wont be for at least 5 years.
He has been iffy about physical relationships before, because he has felt unsure. But we both want to make the next step as we both feel it is right.
I have read on many sites etc, that it dosn't actualy say in the bible you must not have sex before marriage ( in those terms ). Is it not more hinting at if you choose to have sex it should be a life long commitment. And i belive that too..now.
I am not expecting all nice comments, but if people could just put the opinions that would be fantastic.
god bless
ok i just wish to add.
that it is so so hard to explain everything in one of these questions. When i say we have an extremely good relationship i mean it. We can talk about/share anything. Tbh we are technically engaged. As for the safe sex side of things, would double dutch anyway. I am not stupid when it comes to that. I am not taking risks.