Sex at 15 (how will it effect me after]?

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Ok, There's this boy, I've liked him for a long time (6 1/2 years] but he found out 3 years ago. Well, lately we've been talking about sex. I love him, I don't like him, I'm positive I love him. He's said he's liked me, but never said he loves me. Everytime I say something about sex he's asking me if I want to do it, part of me wants to because of my affection for him, but part of me doesn't because I've witnessed friends having sex and then being left by there boyfriends, and that's what I fear. If I did it do you think I should talk about it with my mom, I'm most concerned about her knowing because I don't want her disapointed in me. We've tried to have sex before but I wlaked out (we were safe though]. So, should I do it (advise, tips, logical andwers are good] =]
we're not dating but he's asked me if I wanted to go out with him but I turned it down because I wasn't sure what to expect, he just asked me today if we dated he could have sex with me and i told him that if we dated I want it to be for love, then before he signed off his I.M. he said it's best we don't date. He's also said before the reason he doesn't wanna date me is because he doesn't want to 'fall in love with me' like he did before when he first started liking me.
also: we're both virgins so I'd hope he doesn't have any STD's
 
I'm much older than 15 and I'll tell you the truth about afterwards. First your going to give up something that you were given at birth as a very great treasure. Once it's gone it will NEVER be given back. I will tell you one fact that will help you make this decisions if you will hear it with your future in mind. When a woman has more than one partner in her life and she puts inside her body seed from more than one man her body fights against both of these and it causes STDS's in her. If you are with a man that wont even tell you that he loves you. Think about this. Be as smart as your mother would want you to be and yes talk to her. There is no protection from std's but to abstain.
 
I can tell you from experience it's not a good idea. If you start having sex with him this early, he'll learn to expect it from you and not love you for who you are. Are you two even technically dating?
 
I wouldnt with him, sorry but it's obvious he's using you for sex.
he won't say he loves you
you're not dating
but he wants to have sex with you.
 
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