Mummy Maria *07/05/2010*
New member
i had our son nearly 4 months ago (september 7th will make it 4 months) and im absolutely terrified to have sex.
I had a normal delivery but did have a couple of stitches. I didn't tear instead the midwife cut me incase i would.
Ive had my check up from my doctor and she said everything was fine but everytime we're just about to have sex i get extremely scared and push away.
I do feel aroused etc but everytime we try i can jus about let my hubby come right up close to me and then keep pushing back.
I tend to tense up which makes it even more painful. It feels like its my first time.
I try and relax but i get a slight pain where my stitches were and its very very uncomfortable.
Just wondering if any other ladies have experienced this...?
I've booked an appointment with my doctor but feel really silly and i know she is going to say everything is fine.
Has anyone else waited as long as we have? and also did any of you feel scared?
Thanks in advance
I had a normal delivery but did have a couple of stitches. I didn't tear instead the midwife cut me incase i would.
Ive had my check up from my doctor and she said everything was fine but everytime we're just about to have sex i get extremely scared and push away.
I do feel aroused etc but everytime we try i can jus about let my hubby come right up close to me and then keep pushing back.
I tend to tense up which makes it even more painful. It feels like its my first time.
I try and relax but i get a slight pain where my stitches were and its very very uncomfortable.
Just wondering if any other ladies have experienced this...?
I've booked an appointment with my doctor but feel really silly and i know she is going to say everything is fine.
Has anyone else waited as long as we have? and also did any of you feel scared?
Thanks in advance