SERIOUS SEX QUESTION.?

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Caitlyn

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me and my bf have been dating a litttle over a year now me and him had sex at his house about a week ago and we used protection. but he told me that his dad keeps talking to him about sex(just the past 3 days randomly). this happend a few days ago. i dont know where he got the condom from but im guess his dads? we are both kindof nervous because we dont want to tell our parents we had sex well because there our parents and that would be weird. what do we do?

thank you for the help (:
 
well i think a big part of it is your age? well you should find out where your bf got the condom. because either he did get it from his dad or the dad (or mom) found the condom wraper in the garbage or a peice ofthe wraper. but if its not either of those than maybe the dad just knows that you two are serious and its time to have the "sex talk" with his son..
 
you should do nothing. there's no point in telling them you had sex. you've definitely been dating long enough to do it guilt free.
 
Well his dad probably brought up the subject of sex because he had a feeling that your boyfriend was having sex. What you should advise your boyfriend to do is talk to his dad. The fact that his dad is bringing up the subject, shows that he is willing to discuss any concerns that your boyfriend may have. Maybe he got the condom from his dad, maybe he didn't. You would have to ask him that.

I would recommend you discussing sex with your parents as well. Yes it may be awkward at first. But wouldn't you want your daughter at the age you are, to be able to go to you? It would be much better than her getting misleading advice and information from her friends that are not educated on the subject. Talk to your parents...that's what you should do. Both of you.
 
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