thehillsarealive
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My husband and I have been married for just about 6months. My husband seems quite judgemental & suspicious when i try to spice up sex. He's the only man i've ever had sex with but he seems to think that its not true especially when i get creative in bed. I dont really know what he thinks of me but i know that he gets quite judgemental, suspicious & uncomfortable of me for some reasons i can't quite figure out. Also he doesnt make much effort to pleasure me but if I dont get wet he kind of loses his patience so I feel the pleasuring is mainly one-sided. I hoped that when we'd get married we'd teach each other about sex and how we'd want it and also get adventurous in hot & steamy ways but its not at all like that. I feel as if we just have 'decent' sex but at the same time none of us are satisfied. Sex is not a deal breaker for me but i really want to work this out!!
How can I get my husband to be more open about our sex? He's also quite sensitive and not a very open person which means i have to be very careful what & how i say things and also i have to figure him out. What can i do to improve our sex without crashing or criticising him????
How can I get my husband to be more open about our sex? He's also quite sensitive and not a very open person which means i have to be very careful what & how i say things and also i have to figure him out. What can i do to improve our sex without crashing or criticising him????