I keep seeing different definitions of these virtues, and I would like to have a clear understanding of what they mean (examples perhaps?) and what the difference is. Does self-control mean that you try to have complete control of every aspect of your behavior? Does it mean that you control your indulgences and resist desires? Does self-discipline mean that you strive to be tough, strong and not complain. These terms confuse me because they seem to be a mixture of many different virtues like moderation, humility, strength, etc.