I have a crush on someone even though I really love my boyfriend. I have had this crush going on 4 months now. I cannot shake it like I normally do and I don't know why? I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years (since I was 16). The person I have the crush on is close to him I honestly hardly know him.
I have had dreams about him and even though I try not to think about it and try not to feel that way it just keeps happening.
I feel guilty but I am starting to wonder do we sometimes feel that way because we are meant to be with someone else. & even so how could I live with myself knowing I hurt someone I love for my subconscious telling me I am supposed to love someone else?
Not only that but I could never ever be with this person because of "guy code." Guys don't date girls who are their best friends girls.
I know this person thinks I am pretty/hot because my boyfriend told me. I never noticed this person until one day. I hardly ever see this person EVER... in fact when I know my boyfriend is going to see him I don't go. SO avoidance isn't working what can I do?
Every logical bone in my body says get over it move on be with the one you love... but I can't and its stupid and uncontrollable.
I have had dreams about him and even though I try not to think about it and try not to feel that way it just keeps happening.
I feel guilty but I am starting to wonder do we sometimes feel that way because we are meant to be with someone else. & even so how could I live with myself knowing I hurt someone I love for my subconscious telling me I am supposed to love someone else?
Not only that but I could never ever be with this person because of "guy code." Guys don't date girls who are their best friends girls.
I know this person thinks I am pretty/hot because my boyfriend told me. I never noticed this person until one day. I hardly ever see this person EVER... in fact when I know my boyfriend is going to see him I don't go. SO avoidance isn't working what can I do?
Every logical bone in my body says get over it move on be with the one you love... but I can't and its stupid and uncontrollable.