I'm 27 years old and was married nearly five years ago to my first husband. We were divorced shortly after. I have met someone new and next year we are planning to get married. My first wedding had 175 guests. This will be the grooms first wedding-and I don't wanna skimp out on him, but I don't want an extravaganza either. I'm only inviting close friends and relatives on my side (12 people tops). He has about 40 he'd like to invite. He wants a bit of a party-nothing big, but more than just elopeing (which is my preference). We are having our wedding out of state near his relatives. Just looking for some advice and suggestions. THANKS!