scared of sex..doesnt look comfortable?

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i have never had sex...but the actual intercourse doesnt seem comfortable. (im a girl) i just feel like it would be hurt and i cant see the pleasure that comes from it.
is this normal? what should i do?
please dont respond if you are going to be annoying and joke.
 
dont have sex then. its not compulsory. ur probably too young to be having intercourse anywayz
 
I've had some bad experiences with it myself. I am a girl too by the way. I never once enjoyed sex and always thought that it would just suck forever. But then I met a guy that I have now been with for a long time and I fell in love with him. For some reason..I finally felt like I knew what sex was for the first time. It felt so amazing and even if it did hurt a little bit I was so into it that I would not have noticed any uncomfortable feeling. From then on, it has been amazing.

P.S. The first time always hurts the worst. It's not horrible but I highly recommend being with someone you feel COMPLETELY comfortable with and someone you love or extremely like. If you are not ready than don't rush it but when you are..you'll know.
 
its ok to be scared everyone is there first time..the penis is not as stiff erected as you think it is...if you have a boyfriend talk to him about it or a really close mate. even a teacher at school, they have a dutie of care and keep everything confidential.
 
im just gonna answer the it doesn't feel comfortable part so maybe this will ease your mind a little bit... it feels amazing im just gonna leave it at that if its ur first time it might feel a little uncomfortable at first
 
first of all, how old are you? dont have sex until you are completely sure of what your doing, and why.
second of all, it doesn't hurt for everyone, some girls bleed- but it doesnt hurt, however some girls wont bleed and it does hurt, or even the lucky ones where nothing goes wrong!! you wont know until you try it i guess.
if it does hurt, it'll get better within time, its just getting used to it, after all you are a virgin- its a big step and quite scary.
a common reason is because when you get scared, that you might bleed or do it wrong you tend to tense up and this makes it difficult to have sex, make sure your calm and relax, also that your bf makes you feel okay about it.

hope this helped. xx
 
Your "first time" and maybe a few times after are supposed to hurt. Some women feel more discomfort than others. Apparently, there IS a feeling of pleasure when the girl gets stimulated enough.

If you aren't ready for sex, then don't worry about it right now. And yeah, it's completely normal. I have the same attitude towards it... never had it, and am scared/wary of it.
 
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