Thanks for all your responses, but I've pretty much tried all those apps and they all suck! I'm using Handy Clock right now for my alarms, which doesn't vibrate.
E50 does not have the recurring alarm! Your N95 uses S60v3FP1 or 2 or something, which does have recurring alarm (lucky you). Most of us are waiting for some update from Nokia to fix all the stupid things they messed up on with the E50, but Nokia just won't do it. I've got a list of things I want fixed. If Nokia ever does fix them, someone please post some huge thread about it....please....!!!
I definately don't want the alarm in the calendar up. I have Email and lots of other events on my calendar, and as yall know it only has limited space. My calendar event at 10AM won't show up if I have email and a voicemail and the alarm at 7AM on there...and I like to be able to see what upcoming events I have.