Rules in ISLAM about sex&kids?

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Salam im a muslim lady and for this question i need an answer base on islamic view.
a/way its been 3 yrs ive been married but so far we dont have a kid.. the thing is,i want to have a baby but my husband still wanna wait for at least 2 more years,which i cant stand no more. so far ive read one hadith tht say if a woman want his husband to cumm inside her but he refuse then sin will be upon him and a woman has right to refuse to have sex,which what i used on my husband now!plus he said he wants to use condoms which i disagree~and i used the hadith n applied on him,so farhe seems to be ok with it :s so what i want now is,is there any other hadith or ayah tht can solve my problem?...
thank Q
i did =( but still it didnt work
 
Why dont you just discuss your feeling with each other as adults, and come to a reasonable comprise based on understanding each other's POV

Edit: In that case you two are not mature enough to have children
 
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its marital right of each man and women in wedlock that they have to pay each right of other consort. its duty of both to satisfy each other and take care of each 1s need. if one doesnt care abt it ,its sinful and one has to answer for it to ALLAH !
BUT nothing is by force, but by mutual decision and frendly. to get a baby is right of both if one runs away so its answerable and mean and selfish.
convience him, consult a doctor and try to get your right if not apperently so secretly! you can consult a geonocologist that tell you how can you be pragnant while your husband isnot willing.
you can sue him , try to know law about it !
you can also get divorce !
try to handle tactfully to get your target if you want him.

pray to ALLAH
best of luck !
 
This is not the right place to ask, you should go to
http://www.islamqa.com
where you can find questions and answers about similar problems in mant languages
you can also ask you own question there, they are really helpful
 
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