I've had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. The last 3 months we've had to have a Long Distance Relationship and have only been able to see each other one week since September.
He will be back in 2 weeks and i cannot wait but we've had a few rough times since being apart and I worry things won't be 100% right now.
For instance he went to a female colleague's birthday night out last week - which i was a bit apprehensive about - mainly because living separate lives with different friends is so alien to our relationship as we've always socialized together.
Now on facebook he has been tagged in a "group photo" in a club and he is between some girls. I wasn't very happy and i told him so but he just states that it is a group photo and gets upset as he says he hasn't done anything for me to be angry about.
I've never had any reason to doubt him or mistrust him AT ALL. We talk about our future and have always recognized our love as "something special" compared to other couples we know.
However, whenever I am upset about something my arguments in my head seem perfectly justifiable but as soon as i hear his voice i feel like i am being irrelevant or silly and i usually just pent up my feelings rather than argue. He has a way of talking to me to make me see his way/thoughts are right. And everything is 100 times worse whilst being so far apart. I hate arguing and then not being able to "kiss and make up" after. Conflicts are never quite resolved.
Can I please have some advice on how to conquer this? Should I speak up more? Or am I just being too sensitive?
Please no immature or cruel replies as i see on this site sometimes.
Thanks !
He will be back in 2 weeks and i cannot wait but we've had a few rough times since being apart and I worry things won't be 100% right now.
For instance he went to a female colleague's birthday night out last week - which i was a bit apprehensive about - mainly because living separate lives with different friends is so alien to our relationship as we've always socialized together.
Now on facebook he has been tagged in a "group photo" in a club and he is between some girls. I wasn't very happy and i told him so but he just states that it is a group photo and gets upset as he says he hasn't done anything for me to be angry about.
I've never had any reason to doubt him or mistrust him AT ALL. We talk about our future and have always recognized our love as "something special" compared to other couples we know.
However, whenever I am upset about something my arguments in my head seem perfectly justifiable but as soon as i hear his voice i feel like i am being irrelevant or silly and i usually just pent up my feelings rather than argue. He has a way of talking to me to make me see his way/thoughts are right. And everything is 100 times worse whilst being so far apart. I hate arguing and then not being able to "kiss and make up" after. Conflicts are never quite resolved.
Can I please have some advice on how to conquer this? Should I speak up more? Or am I just being too sensitive?
Please no immature or cruel replies as i see on this site sometimes.
Thanks !