...grandchildren 6 husbands -? and 6 wives 5 brothers 5sisters 3 daughters-in-law 2 sons-in-law one mother-in-law and one father-in-law 6 cousins 5 uncles and 5 aunts 3 nephews and 3 neices 5 brothers-in-law 5 sisters-in-law also everyone there is a child or whatever to someone else at the union and noone has their mother's parent there the grandparents are the parents of fathers-however there were only 18 people who was there?