What strength are you using, 0.004 or 0.1? I know with retinols, you just have to keep using it and not give up. Dry, red skin is one of the side effects, and I know it really sucks! I've never used Retin-A Micro, but I'm going to get a prescription for it next time I go to the doctor, for the 0.04%. I've been using the Skinceuticals Retinol night cream. I've also read that retinols are really good at smoothing wrinkles too. I think you should just stick with it and use a good moisturizer, or maybe start out with every other night and let your skin adjust.