Anthony Oliver
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im 18 years old and i've always had social problems. i've never had a girlfriend, and i've had dreams reflecting this situation. i'm also really depressed. anyway, i've asked myself why i've never had the motivation to get a girlfriend, and i think i have the answer: it's because i KNOW that the only reason why people get into relationships and/or have sex, is because of REPRODUCTION. its all just biology. when you "love" someone, its roots are in your evolutionary biology. when you want to date someone, its biology. i think pretty everybody knows this, but for them, this fact doesn't change their perception of relationships.
for me, if i even think about dating someone, i just immediately think its just my biology talking. this takes all meaning and purpose out of having a relationship for me. anyone who has ever dated are just slaves to their biology. for me, since its been so hard for me to obtain any kind relationship, i've become a mental slave in my own head. i've isolated myself because everytime i try to have friends, they ALWAYS at some point ask me about why i don't have a girlfriend, and it always makes me feel really awkward and abnormal.
my mind always analyzes and question things, and i think this may ultimately be my downfall. i'm a kind of social rebel, and so i've naturally avoided being a slave to my biology, and as a result i've become a mental slave.
for me, if i even think about dating someone, i just immediately think its just my biology talking. this takes all meaning and purpose out of having a relationship for me. anyone who has ever dated are just slaves to their biology. for me, since its been so hard for me to obtain any kind relationship, i've become a mental slave in my own head. i've isolated myself because everytime i try to have friends, they ALWAYS at some point ask me about why i don't have a girlfriend, and it always makes me feel really awkward and abnormal.
my mind always analyzes and question things, and i think this may ultimately be my downfall. i'm a kind of social rebel, and so i've naturally avoided being a slave to my biology, and as a result i've become a mental slave.