ok this may seem like the wrong place to do this...but ive been searching the web for somewhere to get other christian opinions on this subject because its eating me alive..but here goes, so please help!
ok im sure everyone that reads this knows how hard it is to stay away from sex before marriage...or at least all the guys do..and with my girlfriend right now im trying my hardest to stay away from it, because she doesnt want to anymore after hearing a couple really good sermons in worship. i completely understand this and dont pressure her into doin it which i would never do. i read somewhere that if u have sex before marriage it can mess up your relationship because its not the christian thing to do and i read that love is not something u get its something you give ( i didnt really get that party bc if your geting something then that means another gave it to you...) and God wants your relationship to honor him...it pretty much said if u follow Gods laws it will help your relationship stay strong and wat not.
what im tryn to say here is that i need something to help me not want to have sex with her. which is not easy at all because she is absolutely gorgeous...like jessica alba, megan fox gorgeous not tryn to brag but just so yall get the picture and see how hard it is. and she has had sex with past boyfriends one in particular alot and not having sex is makn me feel like less important then him..which i know im not its just shes changed her views in life now thank God. bc he tricked her into havn sex with him after she had a lil to much to drink and stuff like that. and im tryn to stay away from tryn to have sex with her and thinking about it and stuff like that so our relationship will stay strong and im tryn to do wat God wants me to but its so hard its stressing me out thinking about certain things but i know he wants me to do this and i want her to be happy and not ever be pressured to feel like she has to have sex with me.
any help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok im sure everyone that reads this knows how hard it is to stay away from sex before marriage...or at least all the guys do..and with my girlfriend right now im trying my hardest to stay away from it, because she doesnt want to anymore after hearing a couple really good sermons in worship. i completely understand this and dont pressure her into doin it which i would never do. i read somewhere that if u have sex before marriage it can mess up your relationship because its not the christian thing to do and i read that love is not something u get its something you give ( i didnt really get that party bc if your geting something then that means another gave it to you...) and God wants your relationship to honor him...it pretty much said if u follow Gods laws it will help your relationship stay strong and wat not.
what im tryn to say here is that i need something to help me not want to have sex with her. which is not easy at all because she is absolutely gorgeous...like jessica alba, megan fox gorgeous not tryn to brag but just so yall get the picture and see how hard it is. and she has had sex with past boyfriends one in particular alot and not having sex is makn me feel like less important then him..which i know im not its just shes changed her views in life now thank God. bc he tricked her into havn sex with him after she had a lil to much to drink and stuff like that. and im tryn to stay away from tryn to have sex with her and thinking about it and stuff like that so our relationship will stay strong and im tryn to do wat God wants me to but its so hard its stressing me out thinking about certain things but i know he wants me to do this and i want her to be happy and not ever be pressured to feel like she has to have sex with me.
any help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
