Ducky Duck
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I was in 5 years relationship with a girl and 3 years of it we lived together but within that 5 years she dumped me 4-5 times with no arguements no fighting nothing no particular reason but she came back within 1-2 days and i made the mistakes of taking her back so easy. Everytime we broke up tho i went into no contact immediately so she was the one who was keep coming back. 4th time we broke up it took 40 days of no contact and i bumped her in town then she made contact again saying she had all butterflies etc. and she made biggest mistake dumping me bla bla bullshit and took her back then 2 months later she gone again 
) Now its been 3 months and theres been no contact whatsoever but i dont even go town just incase i see this girl and she comes back into my life. So my question is why do dumper contacts when they see dumpee? I reckon if she didnt see me in town that day she wasnt going to contact me at all so I just wonder how the dumper feel when they see dumpee all happy with his life?
) Now its been 3 months and theres been no contact whatsoever but i dont even go town just incase i see this girl and she comes back into my life. So my question is why do dumper contacts when they see dumpee? I reckon if she didnt see me in town that day she wasnt going to contact me at all so I just wonder how the dumper feel when they see dumpee all happy with his life?