relashionship problems..help!?

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Kap

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There is this guy,
im friends with him and he realy likes me
he wants to date me but i dont know if i want to. hes a nice guy
and all but i dont find him attractive at all.
Im not sure if i should give it a shot or wait too see if a better guy comes along?
any suggestions
 
Since you are friends already- you will never find him attractive. If he was a stranger and asked you out- I'd say give it a shot because his personality may wow you. WIth this guy- nothing will be new- so I'd recommend not doing it!
 
I heard a saying once that went something like "You're better off on your own than with the wrong person". IMHO you would probably be better off just staying friends.
 
Being attracted to someone isn't everything, but in your case I would say it sure would help. You sound really distressed by this, and you should be happy if you want to date him that is. I don't think you do. I would just keep it as friends for now. It could grow into more later, but it sounds like you aren't ready for that quite yet. My husband had to wait a year for me to notice him as more than a friend, and at one point in time I said I would never date him if he was the last man on earth, now I wouldn't give him up for anyone! Just give it time
 
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