Relashionship advice, I will pick a best answer, much needed advice!!!?

[Dannica.]

Okay, So im dating a guy who is 17. I started dating him about 2 months ago on december 7th. I broke up with him because i wanted someone else i think, im still not for sure why i did. But we got back together and decided not to count the breakup. Well here's the thing, this girl that used to be my best friend got mad cuz she wanted him, so she has a bunch of random guys i dont know text my boyfriend saying i cheated on him with them and stuff, its petty drama. But that isent the point, he believes me, but hes too mooshy! and does everything i tell him to, which is such a turn off, i love him, but his looks kill me too. He has curly hair like what he calls a jew fro, and big ears , i honestly arent feeling it with him right now. I wont break up with him, but will someone tell me what my deal is? I need some advice and fast. I will pick a best answer, please tell me how i can get over his looks and this rut that im goin through.,,, thank you.