Recently married my Army Man =]?

Tino

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If you didn't get the answers the first two times you asked this question then we cannot help you. This is something you will have to figure out yourself. Sorry.

Why the TD?? I thought my answer was polite and completely reasonable. I guess you were right 8Ball. My target must be getting bigger and bigger by the day.
 
I am 19 yrs old and just recently married. We dated round 2 1/2 months and decided we wanted to married since we love each other so much. He is 21 yrs old and in the army so I had to move to where he is stationed and leave my family. Everyone was against us getting married since they said we dated a short while, etc. I had to come where he was stationed at alone to be married. How do I get my family to understand. Did I make a mistake? I really don't think so, I love him so much!
 
Your family will get over it in time. That is assuming you made the right choice. 2 1/2 months is not long enough (they may well have been right). You knew you were going to be moving away from your family and friends when you made that decision. If you were mature enough and sure enough to make that decision, you should be mature enough and sure enough to handle all of the aspects of your decision.
 
I am sure if u made a mistake, but now its done so forget it...., he is an army man so he is not some unsuccessful guy so dont even think that...

Now tell this to some mature person who very close to your family, but is not your family, or tell it to some other relative whose words your family want to listen....Try it out...
 
Part of marriage is accepting your partner’s decisions and supporting him/her with them. It’s give and take. If you can’t handle his decisions, then maybe he is not the right person for you. Good luck!

And who cares how many times you ask this question, you obviously didn't get enough insight to help you make your own decision =)
 
I think that ur to young to marry. Also we learn from our mistakes. u hardly no each other I knew my husband a year and half before we got married. I had to know him first sometimes I feel that I still don't know him (I say that n a good way). I also say good luck.
 
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