i am what i am
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so to say something before i say what i need to say, i have posted this question before but i didn't get a lot of answers and now the question is dead as in it cant be answered anymore so im going to try to ask again and see what happens...so now that that's over... I'm 13 turning 14 soon. im confused about whether or not im lesbian, bisexual or straight. ive always kinda secretly wanted to be a guy. i used to dress like one and act like it all the time. i still do act like one but i dress more like a girl now, but still no skirts and rarely dresses. i would always hangout with the boys and we would always talk about how pretty girls were (this was when i was 5-9) and i still think girls are VERY attractive. i've had boyfriends but am currently single, but whenever i would kiss my boyfriends i would always be grossed out. and thinking of marrying one grosses me out too. ive never dated a girl or kissed one so i don't know how that would make me feel but whenever i see a really hot girl i get this feeling inside that's all tingly. i talk to my one friend, who is a bisexual girl, about it all the time, but shes the only one i talk to about girls and how i kinda have some crushes on some. to be truthful i would want to date her or at least kiss her but she likes someone else..
so i never bring that up. and i went to the mall and this girl checked me out and all my friends were making fun of me saying that im a lesbian magnet (girls checking me out is kind of a regular thing) but to be truth i really like when they check me out and if my friends weren't there i probably would've go and talked to her. so do you think im lesbian, bisexual or straight?
please dont say that 13 is too young and im really not trying to label myself i just want to know because im so confused!
please dont say that 13 is too young and im really not trying to label myself i just want to know because im so confused!