Rape

Try to get her to go to therapy, take her to the hospital, make sure they take pictures of any bruises, etc. They can take samples.

I know it's hard, I know she's feeling super down right now but the fact of the matter is this shit happens a lot in colleges and it shouldn't be tolerated at all. And putting yourself out there despite all the embarrassment is well worth it in the end.

Make sure she sees a therapist or goes to a support group. It's very important.
 
I know that the morning after pill is good for 72 hours after any incident. I had a bad experince with some one getting raped, make sure she knows she has a friend. There is a lot of good advice on this thread (minus mock.) Be supportive, don't let her think it was her falt. Nobody ever deserves to be raped, ever.
 
I'm with Descent and Icarus on this one. There was a guy in my town who was arrested for rape last year and after the news broke, two other girls came forward with the same story. Turns out they had been too afraid/ashamed to say anything before. Thing is, if they had, maybe he wouldn't have had the chance to do it 3 TIMES!!
I won't even pretend to understand how your friend must be feeling, but I would assume that she will harbour more than a little anger towards the guy who did this to her. She could do herself, and possibly future victims, a big favour by stopping him now.
The right thing to do is not always the easiest.
 
If it's only a couple days after the alleged "raping" then how would this girl KNOW she is pregneant? Btw, you if she was raped you could find out who did it by asking someone you knew at the party, they aren't going to lie for this guy if the cops get involved. Yea, Bitch kinda covered everything I was gonna say.
 
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