Singin4Jesus
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Long story short... My boyf got an offer for this job, and I told him I don't want him having it. I explained my reasons, and I thought he took it all in and changed his mind. Its a very well-payed job, but I don't care about the money. I care about him, and he had other plans to do in the next year and he will struggle so much to do them along with this job. So today was his interview, and he texts me saying 'I got the job' yes, he TEXTED me telling me he got the job!! He's a grown man, I'm going to freaking marry this guy!!! I'm so annoyed, I've said all kinds of things to him today, I never ever ever speak like this! I feel awful, but I'm so annoyed with him. I feel so ashamed of myself for speaking badly to him, but this job isn't good for him! He completely ignored everything I said! What do I do?? I know I should support him and congratualte him, but he completely ignored everything I said to him about this job! Please help me know what to do when I speak to him 
I know I've been very controling over this, I never am. Its so unlike me to be like this. I'm so worked up about it, I can't even believe I've reacted this way! I'm such a shy and sweet person, I never shout, I never say bad things. I feel like I've destroyed half of myself. How can I accept that this 'could be' a good job for him if I've done and said bad things to him, which I never do
I know I've been very controling over this, I never am. Its so unlike me to be like this. I'm so worked up about it, I can't even believe I've reacted this way! I'm such a shy and sweet person, I never shout, I never say bad things. I feel like I've destroyed half of myself. How can I accept that this 'could be' a good job for him if I've done and said bad things to him, which I never do