ranting a bit. grrr!!!!!!!!?

B

Brayden's Mommy

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OK. 1st no one helps me do anything. but every expect crap out of me. no1 has ever helped me get my license. therefore i don't have one, i was told i cant have a job till i get my GED. but no1 is willing to take me to get it. so then i cant do anything. my bf/ all he wants to do is want me to cater to his every want and need. but when i want a little love or attention get the 3rd degree. but oh when i am not showing him i lve him or my attention is on my family oh boy do i get ot hear that. all i ever do is help everyone, please everyone, but no one is willing to help me get on track. i live with my mom obviously. i go to my b.f house like 10 days out of the month. i always have my son never get break. i cook i clean i cater to everyone. i am so stressed and mad. that every one expect stuff for me. but when i do do it people go crazy on me. i have a boyfriend i deserve some respect from but all he is says is go get a life leave me alone. grr. im aggravated. what the heck am i doing wrong here.,
all the online stuff i find is like 300 or more dollars.
 
You must be young.
Be your own advocate. Find someone with their license to help you get yours. Start out with getting your license, then get a job. Save up the money to get your GED. You don't need a high school diploma for a wide variety of jobs.
 
I'm choosing another person's words to address you here.
It's my understanding that he wrote this poem after a phone conversation with a lady friend of his.
I'm betting that her story is quite similar to yours.


The Brave And The Fool

To be accustomed to hurt
and treated like dirt,
is not the reason
why you're here on earth.

For their pain
only fools will dig
a shallow grave
or shed a bucket of tears.

The brave will walk away
from the carcass of the past,
find a burial site miles away
from the heart.

- dodinsky -


Now get off your butt and do something for yourself!
 
what your doing wrong is that you keep letting it happen. Just stop doing all the things you've been doing. When everyone gets mad, or asks what's up tell them that you were just trying to make them see all the things you do for them. And if they get mad or ask about it then they are noticing what you used to do and probably missing it. Once they see the slack your picking up they might go a little easier on you. That's what I did in my house. I quit cooking, cleaning, shopping and getting up with the kids in the morning. After a week of my b/f having to do it all he realized just how burned out I get. Not that he won't forget it again at some point, but when he dose I just go on strike again. It only takes about a day now before he sees what's happening.
 
Do it yourself. Stop your whining and figure out how to get it done, Grow a back bone, and stand up to your retarded boyfriend. I have 0 sympathy for anyone who b*tches and whines but is not willing to help themselves.
Seriously, its called being a woman. Learn to accept it.

Stop playing the damn victim and take care of your life. Of course no one is going to do it for you. Its called growing up.
 
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