r u a girl with facebook? add me plz for decent chat n maybe friendship?

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steven h

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if ur a decent n gd looking girl (maybe that one too im just looking for decent atm) why dont u add me im decent n im not gd looking but to me looks dont matter n only personality does u must be trustworthy too i hate untrustworthy ppl
i have aspergers syndrome even if i could find a gf off the computer my ASD (aspergers) doesnt give me the confidence i need to do so n dont say "gain some confidence then n stop being so pathetic" its not that easy to gain it if it doesnt let me gain it
also im at the adult college in my town n theres no girls in my classes all boys also i cnat just leave my house cos i have a responabilty to look after my invalid mother who needs my 24 hr care its hard enough to balance it out with college n going to conventions and what not would make it too difficult to balance
 
dude you gotta chill, this isn't the way to do it.. be yourself and people will like you the way you are.. don't yield to such cheap ways of getting relationships
 
First of all, acting desperate will only get you girls who are too young to know better. Which can land you in jail mister 19-year-old.

You really want a good looking girl, that's why you put it in your post here... and then said (maybe that one too im just looking for decent atm) so that people would think 'aww... he's not shallow. He just wants DECENT!'

Not gonna fly.

First of all, if you want to find a chick... trolling on Y!A is NOT the best way to do it... and neither is having 'friendly chats' on facebook. If you want to find a legitimately decent female that you are capable of having a good relationship with, then you need to get OFF your computer and go DO something.

Women are like men in the fact that we typically do things that reflect our interests. Are you in to a certain type of music? Then go to shows. Do you like the water? Take a sailing class. Are you into gaming? Go to conventions. Even taking a few classes at a local college is an EXCELLENT way to meet girls... Just find someone you have something in common with in the REAL WORLD.

ETA: I didn't know you had asbergers until I read your profile. Obviously that makes social interaction incredibly difficult. My boyfriend's kid brother has Asberger's as does my best friend's brother and two of the guys I'm in college with...

It makes things harder, but not impossible. I still say... find what you're interested in and find a way to go out and do it. You may be surprised... Not only will you have fun, but you may just find the right girl for you. And hey, at least you'll have something to talk about right away, right?

Good luck dude!
 
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