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I can't really explain this one but..
I've noticed i have some quirky traits and can't seem to interact 100% normally/comfortably socially
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i do have some very avoidant behaviours.. which, in retrospect, are quite unusual that i have 'em and they remind me of my mother - as my mother lives far away, and has been away from me and my sister for most of our lives popping up only ever so often for a short while. i think whath appened is her and my dad didn't get along and so, they seperated, yet, she never decided to stay in contact with me and my sister? and i wouldn't understand why be avoidant?
but yeah, my point is i seem to have these traits. i can't connect with people so i havent been able to pluck up the courage to see my newer 2nd niece who was born like 3-4 months ago. i feel bad but idk. i really don't know what to make of this
I've noticed i have some quirky traits and can't seem to interact 100% normally/comfortably socially
and
i do have some very avoidant behaviours.. which, in retrospect, are quite unusual that i have 'em and they remind me of my mother - as my mother lives far away, and has been away from me and my sister for most of our lives popping up only ever so often for a short while. i think whath appened is her and my dad didn't get along and so, they seperated, yet, she never decided to stay in contact with me and my sister? and i wouldn't understand why be avoidant?
but yeah, my point is i seem to have these traits. i can't connect with people so i havent been able to pluck up the courage to see my newer 2nd niece who was born like 3-4 months ago. i feel bad but idk. i really don't know what to make of this